DESTINY AND LEADERSHIP 💖

A FEW WORDS : Your destiny is what you are destined to do or to become in life . It is your fate , your lot in life . It is what is meant to be , and it cannot be  "CHANGED" . Creating your own destiny , then , means taking control of your life and shaping it into something that you want it to be . Rather than just letting it happen to you .😑 When we need to take action on the opportunities we are presented with fate may open doors but it's our destiny . We can either let fate led us through life or we can shape our own destiny . 
 "THE ONLY PERSON YOU ARE DESTINED TO BE IS THE PERSON YOU DECIDE TO BE" [ Anonymous ]

"When you live your truth , your dreams beat a path towards your doorstep" [ Robin Sharma ]
1.CREATE SUCCESS STRUCTURE :
Many people ask me : How do I discover my destiny ? My response is always the same  'you cannot discover your destiny - your destiny will discover you " .The best move you can make is to do the  inner work required to come to know yourself at the deepest level . Meditate and perform patient reflection so that you  come to know your most authentic value , your highest ,

beliefs and what kind of life you really want to create . The deeper you go , the more you will know . And the more you will know , the easiest it will be to spot the signs that will lead you to the destiny . Once , you find it , your best game as a human will began to unfold . 
" If  you confront your problems rather than avoid them , you will be in better position to deal with them " [ Dalai Lama ]  
2.HOW TO LIVE A BIG LIFE :
I invite you to begin to reflect on what your life would look like  as its  highest most spectacular level . In your days ,  
do you take actions and advance intentions that reflect the highest
of who you are ?  A greater standard to set for yourself is to commit 

to your life representing what's possible  as a human  being . Take a big action . There is a fine balance between making things happen and letting things happen . Life is always a balance between doing and being . A wise " LEADER"👨 strikes  the ideal balance . There is an old saying says , " heaven helps those who help themselves ". Each day do something that stretch you and advance the mission that is your life.😊
"The best prize life offers is the chance to work hard at work worth doing" [ Theodore Roosevelt ] 
Pay  attention to your associations . If you want to know what your life will look like 5 years from now , reflect on the '1o" people 
you spend most of your time with .  The orbit that you live  within 

{ in  terms of the people you spend your time with } will define the kind of person you will become and the kind of life you will lead . Play your highest game , around yourself with people and have conversations with individuals who are committed to the greatness , leadership and personal responsibilities . 
" You can preach a better sermon with your life than with your lips"[ Oliver Goldsmith ]

Create a dream team for yourself . Find people whose lives are working and who are living the kind of life that you want to create . Call them from time to time and engage with them at a 
deep level of conversation . There ideas and personal habits  will
influence you and help you step into the possibilities that your life 
present to you .

" The greatest privilege of leadership is the chance to elevate lives" [ Robin Sharma ] 

Every great life is built on a foundation of structures that support its success . Examples of success structure that you might want to build into your weeks include working with a personal trainer a few times a week , a weekly mastermind - meeting , engaging a life coach , a specific period each week for planning and visioning and a regular walk . 

" The price of greatness is responsibility"
[Winston Churchill ]
Authoress Note : 
Just as a model is something that represents an inspiration  ideal

a role model is someone who inspires others to imitate his or her good behavior . Parents try to be good role models for their children by being good people .😊 A role model is a person  who inspires others because of  their various attributes , with their followers keen to emulate them . Leadership role models usually encourage and inspire , such as the youth and the young  children . Often , these people inspire to emulate behaviors or traits of their role models . 😊
" The world changes by your examples , not by your opinion"  [Denzel Washington ] 💖